Pain, Desire, Will, Love

Pain is a reminder. What do i suffer from?
The very shadow of this suffering is the answer to my question.
If i suffer from not having big breasts, then "having big breasts" is the idea which is causing suffering.
This observation is not all of it though. What is interesting is to investigate as to why one desires a given object or situation. All desires eventually have the same source: the ego.
Satisfaction is about who is enjoying what. Are you enjoying Life or do you want to be enjoyed (by individuals or by Life itself providing you with favourable situations)?
Every moments of suffering are reminders of one's own intentions. At the moment of suffering there is a the possibility to chose to enjoy Life as it is or to suffer the desire of wanting to be loved.
Everyone knows the deep desire of wanting to be loved. It's tough, and although it is much promising and seems sweet when complete, it is the very misery of the mind. Love is here when one surrenders that desire for the unconditional enjoyment of Life.
All what is needed is the firm volition to cast off what hinders true and absolute love, what hinders from fully witness Life and its beauty.

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